weird, unpluged that card from mobo, booted, powered down, plugged it back in and now its working but recognizing as NVIDIA GeForce RTX 3060 12053 MB · MSI and its hashing
fix issue by resetting bios settings to default then only enabling 4G decoding and pcie speed to gen2. I must have messed with too many bios options when I was trying to optimize motherboard resources.